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Supporting Your Students First Year at Penn State

Starting college is a major milestone—not just for your student, but for your family too. As your student steps into this next chapter, you play an essential role in helping them feel confident and supported while encouraging independence and growth. Whether it’s understanding campus resources, planning for arrival, or talking through tough decisions, we’re here to help you feel informed and connected from the start. 

Before Move-In 

Help Them Take the Lead 

Set Up Access 

Ask your student to: 

Family Conversations that Make a Difference

Before your student arrives, talk about: 

  • Expectations for staying in touch
  • Campus safety and responsible decision-making
  • How to handle academic pressures, study strategies, and time management
  • Life skills—laundry, meals, banking, healthcare access
  • Making good choices when it comes to alcohol and drug use
  • The importance of rest, sleep, and exercise
  • Finances and budgeting basics including what the student is expected to pay
  • Talk with your student about how to schedule and attend medical appointments
  • Encourage them to regularly check messages from their healthcare provider’s secure portal
  • Remind them to reach out if they’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure—physical and mental health resources are readily available

Pre-Arrival Conversation Starters

  • What are you most looking forward to in college?
  • What are you most worried about as you begin college?
  • What will you do when confronted with difficult choices?
  • How can we help you during your transition into college? 

Celebrate the Start, Together

Student Send-Off Events

Hosted by Penn State Alumni Chapters across the country, these informal gatherings help students and families connect with local alumni and each other before the semester begins. Your student will receive an invitation if an event is hosted in your area. 

Family Weekend

Come back to campus to experience Penn State through your student’s eyes. Family Weekend includes a full schedule of events—tours, performances, social gatherings, and more.